How to Talk to Your Spouse About Anything
$247.00
Learn with Sarah Pachter in How to Talk to Your Spouse About Anything, a 6-part marriage workshop designed to help you communicate more effectively, navigate difficult conversations, and build deeper connection through practical tools, Torah wisdom, and relationship research. Enjoy lifetime access to the recordings and learn at your own pace.
Sarah Pachter: How to Talk to Your Spouse About Anything
A 6-Part Marriage Workshop for Better Communication, Deeper Connection, and Lasting Change
In this 6-part workshop, Sarah Pachter shares practical communication tools to help you navigate difficult conversations, understand your spouse more deeply, and build a stronger, more connected marriage.
Learn how to express your feelings, listen with greater understanding, repair after conflict, and create the kind of honest communication that strengthens your relationship for years to come.
What You’ll Learn
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Better Communication: Express your feelings in ways your spouse can hear while learning to truly listen to him.
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De-escalation Tools: Pause, reset, and navigate difficult conversations before they escalate.
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Healthy Repair: Learn how to apologize, accept apologies, and prevent past hurts from carrying into future arguments.
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The Three NO’s & Three Knows: Gain practical guidance for knowing when to speak up, when to pause, and how to approach challenging conversations.
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Honesty & Intimacy: Discover how vulnerability and honest communication can create deeper connection.
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Torah Wisdom & Modern Research: Learn communication tools rooted in Jewish wisdom and relationship science.
This isn’t just theory—it’s a practical toolkit you can use whenever difficult conversations arise.
Workshop Schedule
Join Sarah Pachter for six sessions covering the foundations of healthy communication, practical tools for marriage, and real-life questions. Enjoy lifetime access to the recordings and learn at your own pace.
Module 1: Mastoidechtomy — Hearing, Processing & Speaking
Understand how your ears, brain, and mouth work together—or against you. Explore the biology of listening and why you hear what you hear before you can respond effectively.
Module 2: Self-Work & the 3 S’s of Communication
The most important conversation happens inside you first. Learn the foundational inner work that makes external conversations easier, calmer, and more effective.
Module 3: Tools of Communication
A deep-dive, two-part workshop featuring practical techniques and scripts you can use in your marriage. Learn concrete tools tailored to the unique dynamics of marriage and challenging conversations.
Module 4: The Best Communication Advice — From Top Experts & Torah
Discover insights from leading psychologists, relationship researchers, and Torah sources. Sarah Pachter brings these ideas together into a practical framework that combines modern research with timeless Jewish guidance.
Module 5: The Three NO’s & Three Knows — Sorry Not Sorry
Learn how to say no without guilt, know yourself without defensiveness, and apologize in a way that heals. Explore how to let go so resentment doesn’t take control of your marriage.
Module 6: Question and Answer Session
Gain insights from fellow participants’ questions and explore real-life communication challenges with Sarah Pachter. Learn from the specific situations and experiences that arise in marriage.
Lifetime Access to the Workshop Recordings
Enjoy lifetime access to all six sessions of How to Talk to Your Spouse About Anything with Sarah Pachter. Learn at your own pace, revisit the communication tools whenever you need them, and apply what you learn to build a stronger, more connected marriage.
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Sarah Pachter is a dynamic, motivational Jewish speaker and author who has lectured on three continents. For the past two decades, Sarah has passionately taught women of all ages and levels of Jewish observance, drawing in large crowds with her innovative and personal touch. In addition to lecturing for many organizations, schools, and synagogues, she is a Kallah teacher, dating coach, and mentor. Sarah runs growth groups in private homes and meets with individuals for one-on-one private sessions.
Sarah has been featured on podcasts, radio, is a regular columnist, and a freelance writer for the Jewish Press, Aish.com and the Jewish Home as well as many other publications. Her work has been translated into several languages. She has authored “Is it Ever Enough?” published by Feldheim and “Small Choices Big Changes” published by Targum Press.
She currently resides in Los Angeles with her husband and five children.
Sarah Pachter leads the Jewish Workshops Heart of the Home community and offers practical, meaningful tools and insight into a married woman’s closest relationship.
Courses by Sarah Pachter:
Just wanted to thank you for your 4-part series. Happily married for nearly 40 years, my wife and I still thoroughly enjoyed your classes and learned a lot. Your openness, thoroughness and ability to demystify such a sensitive subject were truly amazing.
I’m writing to let you know I signed up for your intimacy class and I’m listening to the first one and I’m so blown away! I love it! You are amazing! You are taking a topic that people find hard to discuss and making it so accessible and empowering. Thank you !!
You should know that you are the first woman I feel so comfortable and blessed to be open to. I did always ask Hashem to send me the right shaliach for my deepest marriage questions that I can’t ask anyone..
