What if the arguments you're having right now- about toothpaste, screen time, money, intimacy- weren't signs that your marriage is broken, but signs that it still matters?
Hi, I'm Sarah Pachter. After years of working with couples at every stage of marriage, I've learned one thing above everything else: communication is the core of it all. Not just conflict resolution. Not just "active listening." Real communication , the kind that makes you feel known, respected, and loved, is the foundation of intimacy itself.
And most of us were never taught how to do it.
That's why I'm hosting this free live webinar, How to Talk to Your Spouse About Anything.
Join us for the FREE webinar
By signing up for this free live webinar you will:
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Finally feel heard
Learn how to express what you actually mean without it turning into a fight.
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Rebuild real connection
Discover how the right conversation can bring you closer, not further apart.
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Know exactly what to say
Get a proven framework for tackling even the hardest topics with confidence.
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Shift the dynamic at home
Learn why you have more power to change your marriage than you think.
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Break the same-fight cycle
Identify your conflict pattern and stop repeating it.
Why we fight with the people we love most...
It's not a flaw in your relationship, it's actually a sign of comfort, care, and connection.
We'll unpack why conflict is inevitable (yes, even in the Torah) and what that means for you.
May 18, 2026 // 12 PM Eastern / 7 PM Israel
Meet Sarah Pachter
Sarah Pachter is a dynamic, motivational Jewish speaker and author who has lectured on three continents. For the past nineteen years Sarah has passionately taught women of all ages and levels of Jewish observance, drawing in large crowds with her innovative and personal touch. In addition to lecturing for many organizations, schools, and synagogues, she is a Kallah teacher, dating coach, and mentor. Sarah runs growth groups in private homes and meets with individuals for one-on-one private sessions.
Sarah is a delegate for the WZO congress in Israel, has given a TEDx talk (one of the first, if not the first orthodox Jewish woman to do so ). She has been featured on podcasts, radio, is a regular columnist, and a freelance writer for the Jewish Press, Aish.com and the Jewish Home as well as many other publications. Her work has been translated into several languages. She has authored “Is it Ever Enough?” published by Feldheim and “Small Choices Big Changes” published by Targum Press. She currently resides in Los Angeles with her husband and five children.
The patterns that keep you stuck
The pursuer-withdrawer. The critic-defender. The scorekeeper. The mind reader. The parent-child dynamic. The same fight on a different day. We'll identify which pattern is playing out in your marriage, and why recognizing it is the first step to changing it.
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Reviews
"I just want to thank you again for your classes. Your openness and not being ashamed to speak about this personal and private part of our marriages in such a clear way has been oxygen for many of us."
"Thank you again for this most wonderful series at exactly the time it is so helpful for me. I am very much enjoying it and really appreciate all the research and input that went into these most informative sessions."
"Sarah spoke on our Sukkot program in South Italy. I must say I was absolutely amazed at the
way she spoke. She was so prepared and was able to give over her points with so much
warmth and passion. People really woke up from her class and gained a lot of light."
- Rabbi Yisroel Piha, Chabad of South Italy
"Sarah is the most dynamic and captivating speaker - her lessons are practical, applicable, and
thoughtful. She has this magical, unparalleled, way of tying together personal stories, Torah
lessons, and scientific studies. She is brilliant! I am forever grateful for all I have learned from
her."
Jessica Shamshoni
Licensed, Certified Genetic Counselor
Assistant Adjunct Professor
David Geffen School of Medicine at UCLA
Department of Human Genetics
"Sarah is an amazing speaker!! She is very relatable, knows how to bring together torah concepts with challenging current topics, especially for teens and parents of teens. Her talks highlight and encourage concepts of positivity, resiliency, gratitude, and acknowledgment of Hashem’s good presence and influence in our life."
Rosa Krajmalnik-Brown
Professor and Director of the Biodesign Center for Health Though Microbiomes
You don't need a perfect marriage to start. You need one conversation done differently. I'll show you exactly how.